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日期:2008-12-31 09:55

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Girlfriend gift guide

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Find out how the lady in your life will interpret your holiday gift idea

Choosing the perfect present for your loved ones can be stressful especially for that special someone, what do women really think of the gifts they receive this time of the year, what's she really going to think what is going though her head, Join us today to talk about how does she interprets your gifts, is the editor in chief of Askmen.com James Bassil.

James thanks so much for joining us, this is important information because I think all of us men have been in a situation when we give a gift, we got that strange look, like, maybe she doesn't like it。

Strange look generally isn’t a good thing.

Right, we know, it's very familiar with secretary we’ll delve into that in a moment of the first the website, because really this is one of those websites for a few men. And if got any question about being a man basically you can go there, right?

Yes, we have the answers to all questions to guys

All questions man put

We have run 7 million readers a month. Yeah. And we deal with advice in every area that could have been contrasted to guys. So…

And who is giving out the advice, men or women?

Ah, as for the most of us, men. Most advice senators are men, but when it comes to the dating suff, we’d like to get the woman’ s point of view in there too, because they know what they want.

It's important, right, so if you got a question you’re afraid to ask your wife or your girlfriend, go to the website.

And do it anonymously

While we mention this whole thing about interpreting gifts, what's that all about?

Well, if you think about you give your girlfriend two gifts that she know she could get. so you can bet that she is thinking about that and she is painting some buildup to it, so once that she receive it, you wanna make sure you delivered and you meet the expectations that she generated.

Get you, very good. OK, let's run the gamut of the possible gifts for Christmas, just we cover all the basis the logical gift of course the one women seem to like the most is bland jewelries, is that a safe bet?

Yes, it can be a safe bet, and in an established relationship it can be a very safe bet, and I specify established because if you do it too early in a relationship that’s gonna send a message that you might not wanna give, while she might not wanna get, It symbolizes commitment and as a serious gift, jewelries. If you do it too early it might create some speculation.

What if it’s subtle jewel? It needn’t to be diamond ring, maybe something you know a little golden or golden-looking.

yes, I think you want to be generally subtle and a little discrete about. Just depend on the flesh value of right. But most importantly tailored for her, make sure send something keeping with her tastes, look at the other jewelries that she owns and her clothes, that really put that kind of summit to it.

So if you’ve being going out for a couple of month, do not rush out to the jewelry store.

Get back from the jewelry store. You are gonna scare her off.

All right, perfume, another logical gift.

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为所爱的人选择完美的礼物是相当有压力的,尤其是为特别的人。在一年的这个时间收到礼物的女子怎样看待礼物,她心里是怎么想的呢?我们今天的节目探讨一下她怎样解释你的礼物,来到我们节目的是Askmen.com的主编James Bassil。

James,非常给那些来参加我们的节目,这是非常重要的,因为我们所有的男人在送礼物是都处于这样的境地。我们看到奇怪的表情,好像她不喜欢我们送的礼物。

奇怪的表情总不是好事。

好的,我们知道,我们在跟秘书打交道的时候他们会浏览这个网站,因为这是众多服务于男人的网站之一。如果有任何问题,可以登录网站,对吗?

是的,男人的所有问题我们都有答案。

所有男人提出的问题。

我们每个月有700万读者。是的。我们有来自各个领域的男子提出的问题的建议。所以……

那么是谁提出的建议呢,男人还是女人?

大多数是男人。大部分建议指导人员都是男人,但是关于约会的问题,我们会考虑女人的观点,因为她们知道自己想要什么。

而且是以匿名的方式征求意见的。

我们提到的关于解释礼物的问题,具体情况是什么呢?

假设你想送给你女朋友两件她猜到自己能收到的礼物。你可以打赌,她正在考虑这件事,正在幻想,一旦她收到了,你想确认你送了她想要的东西,达到了她的期望。

是的,非常好。让我们来说一下圣诞节的可能的礼物。我们把所有为女人准备的礼物都包装好,一般情况下女人最喜欢的是珠宝,这个赌注是安全的吧?

是的,这是最保险的。如果是已经确立的恋爱关系送珠宝是最安全的。我明确说明是已经确立的关系,因为如果你在一段恋爱关系中过早地送这种性质的礼物会传达出你不想传达的错误信息,她可能不想接受到这种信息,这象征着承诺,是一种危险的礼物。如果你过早采取行动会引起不必要的猜测。

如果是比较精细的礼物怎么样呢?不一定是钻戒,可能是你知道的一点金器或者镀金的珠宝。

是的,我认为你想表现的微妙一点,分散一下注意力。仅仅取决于时尚价值。但是最重要的是要适合她,确保找到适合她口味的东西。可以看一下她其他的珠宝和衣服,这可以体现出她的口味。

所以如果你已经为寻找礼物寻找了两个月了,不要着急买珠宝。

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重点单词
  • stressfuladj. 紧张的,压力重的
  • diamondn. 钻石,像钻石的物质,菱形,纸牌的方块,棒球内场 v
  • discreteadj. 不连续的,离散的
  • jewelryn. 珠宝,珠宝类
  • interpretv. 解释,翻译,口译,诠释
  • speculationn. 沉思,推测,投机
  • summitn. 顶点;最高阶层 vi. 参加最高级会议,爬到最高点
  • establishedadj. 已被确认的,确定的,建立的,制定的 动词est
  • perfumen. 香水,香气 vt. 使香气弥漫
  • commitmentn. 承诺,保证; 确定,实行